Small Church Vs. Growing Church
All kinds of literature is written about the uniqueness of small churches. One statistic claims that 90% of all churches in the United States are less than 100 members. Our Presbytery is sponsoring a music seminar for the challenges that ‘small’ churches face. There is even a website called Small church.com: “A Big Place for small Churches”.
When I was in college I was involved in Inter-Varsity Christian Fellowship and we changed the name of our small groups to ‘Action’ groups.
Some see the word ‘small’ as limiting. Others probably place no value on it…it just is. Having served in a handful of churches of around 100 members, I have heard other language from members that tells me that they either like their small church or it’s an excuse for not doing more…“We’re just a small country church.”
I have some observations that are just that…my observations. I would enjoy taking this further and having a conversation as a follow-up to our Wednesday Night Special studies. So here goes:
1. In a small church we do one program at a time. All members are invited. All energy is poured into making this one event a success.
In a growing church, we offer multiple programs. Some even happening at the same time recognizing that members will have to choose. People need to decide what they are excited about and work with those who are like-minded to create an excellent event.
This approach communicates that we expect growth and that we are using the gifts of our members to their maximum potential.
2. In a small church we see the parking lot and pews as ours. We have our favorite spots and enjoy the familiarity of being in the same place each week.
In a growing church, the best parking spots are left for visitors and of course for those who need to be close. I have my favorite pew but would be thrilled if a visitor sat there.
3. In a small church we design our stewardship and budget based on what we’ve always done. It worked last year so we’ll plan accordingly.
In a growing church, we plan for growth. We set aside monies designed for new programs and plans that are even thought of yet.
4. In a small church language is often exclusive. Phrases such as “As you know” or “Remember last week or last year”. Also, inside jokes are common. Such that a visitor might sense that they really don’t belong.
In a growing church language includes everyone. The liturgist and the pastor work hard to speak to the person who is furthest away….meaning a visitor who has never been there before. We share page numbers, explain liturgy, fill out the friendship register and don’t assume anything.
I’ve run out of space, but I wonder what you’re thinking. Have I offended you? Then I ask the question I have proposed before: “Who’s church for?” And I’ve always liked the phrase, “The church is the one organization that exists for those who have not yet joined.”
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